How to apologise to your boyfriend
How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend: 16 Ways to Make Him Smile
how to apologize to your boyfriend
There are times in a relationship when you are bound to make him mad. When you do, here are 16 tips on how to apologize to your boyfriend and get past it.
They have done numerous studies regarding couples determining whether it is more important to be right or to be happy, and guess what? It is more important for most to be right. That poses a huge problem and creates a power play, push, and pull in any relationship. The worst part about a fight is wanting to end it, but not knowing how to apologize to your boyfriend.
There are times when you think you may be wrong, but you don’t want to admit it. Then there are other times when you know you are absolutely right, but if you don’t say you are sorry, it drags on forever.
How to apologize to your boyfriend
Most men are very stubborn and sometimes even when you say the actual words “I am sorry” they hold a grudge and act passive aggressively for an eternity. So, if you want to wave the truce flag, but aren’t entirely sure how, there are ways to apologize to lighten the mood and restart any relationship.
Try these heartfelt apologies to smooth things over and get him to let things go without holding it over your head forever.
#1 Send him a sexy text. There is nothing that makes your guy get past whatever he is mad about quicker than a text message with a promise for a sexy evening. No guy holds onto anger when he is aroused. If you send him a sexy text, he is going to have to trade one thing for the next. [Read: 20 sexy text messages to start a sexy conversation]
#2 Send a hot picture of yourself. Guys are much more visual creatures than you think. If you send him a hot picture of yourself, perhaps even one that is a little slutty, he won’t be able to stay mad at you very long. Regardless of what it is you did, he is likely to start thinking with the wrong head again, getting you off the hook for whatever your indiscretion was.
#3 Text him a joke or something funny to make him laugh. The reason he loves you is you have an ability to make him laugh and feel better about himself. If you see something funny that you know will make him laugh, send it to him in a message. Laughter is not only the best medicine, it is also the best way to get him past mad and onto forgiveness. [Read: 40 cute texts to make him smile and miss you more]
#4 Show up at his place with nothing on but your jacket. How can he resist your womanly charm? If you can get him to answer the door, and you are wearing nothing underneath your jacket but skin, there isn’t anything he can stay mad at. Give him a little peek-a-boo if he resists your charm at first. It will surely gain you entrance.
#5 Just smile. Have you ever been in the heat of an argument where he is really mad at you or you are really mad at him and just smiled? There are muscles in your face that literally trigger endorphin release. When you smile, it is contagious, and then he will smile. Before you know it, you will both wonder what you were so mad at to begin with. A smile is a great way to reassure him everything is okay and things aren’t ever that serious.
#6 Say you are sorry. If he is really mad and all your attempts at getting him to see why you aren’t wrong don’t work. You may just have to bite the bullet and say you are sorry to him.
The words “I am sorry” go such a long way to mending a broken relationship. Not only will they bring a sense of relief, but they also allow him to move on and start to forgive you for whatever he thinks you have done.
#7 Make dinner and sneak out. The way to a man’s heart is truly through his stomach. If you have done something to make him mad and don’t quite know how to approach him or get him to forgive you, show up at his place with his favorite dinner and just leave it.
While he is enjoying your fabulous dinner creation, he will look around, and realize the only thing missing in the wonderful meal is you. You will be back in his arms in no time. [Read: How to be the best girlfriend: 25 ways to leave him addicted]
#8 Send him lunch at the office. If you know he is stuck in his horrible cubicle and can’t sneak away for more than a bag lunch, surprise him by ordering in lunch. Deliver or have delivered by his favorite restaurant to say “I’m sorry.” It allows him a break from the everyday and shows him you think of him all the time.
#9 Get his car cleaned. Guys are pigs, can I just say it? If you notice his car has been littered with every dinosaur soda can that he drunk over the past year, borrow his keys and take his car to get detailed. How can he stay mad at you when you did something so nice as to clean his ride? It is a very thoughtful gesture that is a bit more than just saying “I am sorry.”
#10 Clean his apartment. Cleaning his place may take all day, but it is something he will really appreciate. Do his laundry, clean his nasty toilet, and put all his favorite things in his pantry and refrigerator. When he returns, there is no way that he can stay mad at you.
Making his home more comfortable is one of the best ways to say I am sorry and I love you. Just make sure if there is something that you shouldn’t be looking through, you don’t touch it. You don’t want to open up another whole can of worms trying to do something nice. If it is off limits, keep it off limits. [Read: 25 awesome ways to keep a guy hooked and happy in love]
#11 Buy him tickets to see a game with his friends. Not only does he want to see the playoff game, but he wants to see it with his buddies. Typically, he would ask you to go if he got great seats out of sheer loyalty, but this time, get him fantastic seats and tell him it is okay to go with a friend. Your generosity, followed up by your non-possessiveness ensures he simply can’t be angry or upset with you anymore.
#12 Surprise him with a blowjob. Boys aren’t into flowers, but a blowjob is like flowers to a guy. Even if you aren’t really talking, there doesn’t need to be any talking to give him an amazing blowjob. If you make it mind-blowing enough, it jump starts his brain and make him wonder why he was ever mad at you to begin with.
#13 Buy him a sex toy, just for him. Sex toys go both ways. Get on the internet and find something heightens his sexual pleasure. Nothing makes him forget his anger more quickly than a toe-curling orgasm. Look into a prostate massager for some additional forgiveness in your makeup sex.
#14 Plan a surprise getaway weekend. Pick him up from work on a Friday with two tickets to a weekend getaway. Sometimes we start to get angry with one another because of the day-to-day stresses of life. What better way to say you are sorry and start over than to plan a weekend getaway for just the two of you. Pack his and your bags and head for the airport. You can say you are sorry on the way, or not. [Read: 10 ways you can make your relationship more fun]
#15 Give him his freedom for the weekend. Sometimes the problem isn’t stress; sometimes it is too much together time. If you are arguing a lot with seemingly no reason, it may just be that you need a break from one another.
If you want him to forgive you and to have a way to start over, then tell him he can have his freedom for the weekend. Tell him to take some time off, and you do the same. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. [Read: 13 clingy girlfriend signs and how to avoid it]
#16 For the inexcusable, just let him be. If you have done something inexcusable, and you have tried to apologize, the best way to handle yourself is to let him be. If you continue to badger and beg for forgiveness, you conjure up his anger over and over.
He will not forgive you until he is ready if he is going to at all. Stop pushing him and just give him some space. The text messages need to stop, the showing up at his door needs to stop, and the contacting friends and family to plead your case doesn’t do any good either.